Co-Owner and Funeral Director
Wesley was born in Henryetta and has strong family roots in the community. The son of Rev. Michael & Jan VanMeter. Wesley graduated from Faith Christian Academy near Henryetta and went to University of Central Oklahoma where he received his degree in Mortuary Science. Wesley also holds a minister's license and travels to India on occasion for missions work.
Wesley and his wife Martha have 6 beautiful daughters, and 5 grandbabies.
He is committed to serving the community with dignity and compassion during a time of extreme difficulty.
Wesley has worked in the funeral business in the Henryetta area since 1997.
Co-Owner and Funeral Director
Jimmy Dale Spurlock is a native of the Henryetta & Dewar communities. The youngest of four children, Jimmy was born December 25, 1957 in Henryetta to Billy J. & Patsy Spurlock, also lifelong residents of the Henryetta area. He graduated from Dewar High School class of 1976 and attended Oklahoma State University. Jimmy received his degree in Mortuary Science from the University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond.
With over forty years working in the funeral business, Jimmy is dedicated to his work in funeral service and supports many community efforts and charities. In 2009, along with partners Wesley VanMeter and Robert Owens, opened Integrity Funeral Service in Henryetta.
Jimmy is a member of the United Pentecostal Church in Dewar where he served as organist for many years.
Jimmy is married to his wife Janice who is employed as a registered nurse. He has one daughter Tina Brittenham and husband Josh as well as a grandson, Jameson Wade Brittenham.
Funeral Director
Gerald
was born in Okemah, Oklahoma, and grew up in Okmulgee. Born to Donald Edward and Marie Annette Thompson, he graduated from
Okmulgee High School in 1989 and from OSU Okmulgee in 1992 receiving an Associate degree in Manufacturing Technology. Gerald's journey into the funeral industry
began in 1991 when he took on the role of a Funeral Director's Assistant. His
primary role was as a Pre-Arrangement Counselor, where he provided
compassionate assistance to those navigating the complex process of funeral
preplanning. This early experience sparked a lifelong commitment to serving his
community and helping families during their most challenging times.
In 2022, Gerald took a significant step forward in his
career by enrolling in Mortuary School. He graduated with his diploma from the
Dallas Institute of Funeral Service in Dallas, Texas in August 2023. This
formal education, coupled with his practical experience, equipped Gerald with
the knowledge and skills to excel in his chosen profession.
Throughout his career, Gerald is recognized for his
dedication, professionalism, and the deep empathy he extends to all he serves.
He is not just a funeral director; he has the desire to be a pillar of support
for grieving families, guiding them with kindness and understanding. His work is
not merely a job, but a calling.
Beyond his professional life, Gerald is a devoted
father to his two children Julia and Jake, and a doting grandfather to his
grandson Titus. His family is his pride and joy, and he cherishes every moment
spent with them.
Gerald is also an active member of the First Baptist
Church of Dewar, Oklahoma.